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MESSAGE FROM DCN. NIKO BEKRIS
July 2009

Metropolis Youth and Family Ministries Director

 

            “Nintendo ‘Me’”

            By Rev. Deacon Niko Bekris

            “Have you beaten all eight bosses?”  When I was a kid that was a popular question we asked each other on the playground- “Did you beat all the bosses in Mega Man 2”?  It was an insanely popular video game back in the early 90s, and the point of the game was to go from one level to the next, beating the evil robot boss of each level, and by doing so, acquiring a weapon to help you in the next level.  You’ve probably heard of the Mega Man series, as they are still being made, these days mostly for Nintendo DS.  I was certainly a big fan.  There were few things I loved doing more in third grade than playing Mega Man for a few hours Saturday afternoon, or for that matter, Super Mario World, Shadows of the Empire, or later FIFA ’99 or NFL 2K3.

            Video games have a way of doing that.  You pick up a controller, tell yourself you’re only going to play a game for fifteen minutes… and then you look at your watch and two hours have gone by!  Video games have gotten so realistic these days, too, that a fictional world is created in your television that makes you want to spend hours there!  Whether it’s Hyrule, the Mushroom Kingdom, a futuristic Tokyo, or an American sports stadium today, we can get sucked into playing video games and forgetting about basically everything else.  Don’t get me wrong, video games can be immensely fun- a great way to unwind and even have fellowship with one another.  I’m sure you know what I’m talking about, though, when I say that video games sometimes have a way of tempting us to drop what we’re supposed to be doing and turn into zoned-out vegetables.  

            I recently glanced at a few online video game magazines to see what’s selling these days.  I was quickly amazed at how realistic video games become each year- like virtual movies that you control!  I am also amazed when I see that most of the best-selling video games are rated “T,” or “M,” (Teen or Mature) and often have increasing levels of violence- even the games advertized in billboards, magazines and TV.  Studies have found teenage males to have raised levels of testosterone after playing video games, and heightened aggression.  Very subtly, anyone can run the risk of having a shorter patience, an increased eagerness to be entertained, and becoming desensitized to violence.  Clearly, what we play on video game consoles does have an effect on us, and despite the many harmless games that do exist, the industry as a whole doesn’t seem to care about regulating levels of violence and content in their games.

God certainly wants us to have healthy fun and enjoy ourselves, no doubt.  But He also wants to make sure that we always do what’s healthy for our soul and spiritual growth.  You know that feeling you get when you stop playing a game after three hours?  What does your house look like when you’re walking into the kitchen to get a drink of water?  It’s pretty surreal, isn’t it?  You almost have to phase yourself out of the game and back into real life.  If we’re not careful, the violence and mindless entertaining we experience in video games can have an adverse effect on us if we don’t balance it with healthy time outside, reading recreationally and most importantly, going to church.  Our church services are the most healthy activity we can do for our souls, and they are not mindless entertainment, but require effort on our part for us to participate, which is a good thing!  Our bodies and souls require a healthy balance of fun-filled activities as well as worship of the Lord, not to mention that Christian “filter” I often talk about to be working.  I promise you, if you make this an aim of your life, you will see the benefits and the great gift of life the Jesus Christ gives us.  And best of all, to achieve this, we don’t have to beat eight boses.

Youth and their families can contact Deacon Niko at:  sfyouth@sanfran.goarch.org

 

 

 

 

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