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MESSAGE FROM NIKO BEKRIS
November 2008

Metropolis Youth and Family Ministries Director

 

 

Do You Wear Armor?

 By Niko Bekris

            I’m pretty sure you’ve heard of a little movie that came out earlier this year in theatres and on DVD a few weeks ago.  Y’know, the one with Robert Downey Jr. about a guy who puts on armor and fights bad guys as a superhero?  If you still don’t know what I’m talking about, the movie is “Iron Man,” and you need to go to your local video store and check it out… today.  If you’ve seen this movie you probably know that everyone loved it, and it was the #2 biggest money-maker of the year.  Personally, I loved the movie, and not just because I love superhero movies.  If you really read between the lines and take a look at what the movie was really about – and I’m not talking about the cool special effects or even fighting the bad guys- it’s about wearing “armor.”  In the beginning of the movie, Robert Downey Jr.’s character, Tony Stark, is a self-centered jerk who cares about no one but himself.  He’s a self-made billionaire who owns everything he wants, parties, drinks, and treats people like dirt.  But when he gets captured by terrorists in Afghanistan and his heart is badly injured, he then sees someone close to him make a noble sacrifice, and his life-changes.  He literally, and metaphorically, has a “change of heart.”  He builds a device for himself to keep his heart alive, and also builds armor for himself to be a hero.  Tony Stark put on armor because he wanted to be a new person, a better person, and do what was right.  So my question is this- do you wear armor?

            If you ask me, I think we all wear armor.  Hasn’t there been something in our life that has hurt us, injured us, or maybe made us feel like we weren’t good enough?  Isn’t there something that we wear on the outside that reflects a pain on the inside?  We might try to hide it with the coolest new clothes, a nice pair of shoes, a new scent- maybe a piercing, a tattoo?  Sometimes we feel like we have to wear something that everyone else is wearing, or do something that everyone else is doing, even if it’s something we’re not comfortable with, or is just not us.  We’re afraid of showing everyone who we really are, or what’s really going on in our hearts.  It’s during these situations that I would like to offer you something to remember- you are special, you have been made in the image and likeness of God, and you don’t have to ever be embarrassed about what’s going on inside.  God didn’t create us so we could try to be someone we’re not.  He created us so we could be true to our identity.  That’s why sometimes we receive crosses that are engraved with our name on them when we are baptized- because we are special and “precious in the eyes of the Lord” (Psalm 116:15).  When Jesus was praying to the Father the night before His death, He prayed and asked, “Righteous Father, the world does not know you, but I know you; and these (people) know that you have sent me.  I made your name known to them, and I will make it known, so that the love with which you have loved me may be in them, and I in them.” (John 17:25-26)  We have been made in God’s image and likeness, and because we are Christians, Christ lives in each one of us.  Even if you feel you need to be someone else, or do something you don’t want to, you don’t have to, because Christ is in each of you.  We don’t have to wear any kind of “armor” to hide what’s inside.  What we do on the outside should be true to our Christian identity on the inside.  So like our friend Tony, let’s look into our hearts, and do the right thing.

 

Youth and their families can contact Niko at:  sfyouth@sanfran.goarch.org

 

 

 

 

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former director (now Fr.) Peter Sotiras