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MESSAGE FROM NIKO BEKRIS
October 2008

Metropolis Youth and Family Ministries Director

 

SORRY, KID ROCK                         

  A few weeks ago, I took a look at the Top 20 albums list on Entertainment Weekly, a list of the best selling music in America today.  The #1 album being sold was the new CD by Young Jeezy called “Recession.”  As I glanced downward, I noticed that the #4 best selling album in the country was Kid Rock’s “Rock and Roll Jesus,” which caught my eye because I noticed it has been on the Top 20 list now for over four months straight.  I went on Youtube to listen to a few of the songs on these two albums afterwards, and, as you can imagine, there were a lot of messages that jumped out at me right away.  There was a song on Young Jeezy’s album called “Hustlaz Ambition.”  Early on in the track the rapper says, “No one gives a (curse word), so that’s why we crime wave.”  In Kid Rock’s track “Amen,” in which he criticizes the state of the world today and he urges everyone for religious tolerance (good for him), he says “It’s a matter of salvation from impatience up above…”  (…not good for him).  There are other songs on both albums that have mixed messages when it comes to religion and what the artists believe about the country and the world, too.

 And yet these two artists are selling their albums like crazy, and we love listening to them on iTunes, CDs, and the radio.  I ask myself what it is about this music that makes it so popular.  Maybe it’s because the songwriters don’t hold anything back about what they feel, and maybe what they feel is what we feel sometimes.  Have I ever felt like no one cares about me?  Sure I have.  Have you ever felt like there’s no one who understands you or cares about you?  Maybe you’ve even felt like God doesn’t understand you, or maybe even that God doesn’t care.  If you’ve ever felt like this, that’s okay.  We all have times where things don’t go the way we plan them, or when things go bad, or maybe even completely horrible.  And it’s during these times when music like this really speaks to us.  We might feel like Young Jeezy or Kid Rock know us better than our friends, our family, or even God.  Like the songs say, we wonder if anyone really does care about us, even God.  

 

            During tough times in my life, I try to remember that God Himself felt abandoned, felt betrayed, and maybe even like no one understood Him.  In the Garden of Gethsemane, for instance, Jesus went by Himself to pray to the Father the night before He died, only to find His best friends, His disciples, asleep (Matthew 26:45), when He had urged them to stay awake.  But despite feeling this way, was Jesus actually not loved by His Father?  Has God ever stopped loving anybody who was in a rut?  Of course not.  God never, ever stops loving us.  Ever.  Even when we may feel otherwise.  These types of lyrics that so many songs today push on us are completely untrue.  I wonder sometimes how many of these songwriters and artists really even care about what God is like, His love, and what is really true in life.  We should not let these trashy lyrics absorb into our hearts and minds.  No one said music is bad- in fact, it can often express what’s inside us in ways nothing else can- but we have to make sure we filter what we hear.  I’ll end with this beautiful quote by St. Paul from Romans 8:38-39, that I pray is a part of our Christian filter, whatever we may encounter: “For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor rulers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.”  Sorry Kid Rock, this is what it’s really about. 

 

 

 

 

Youth and their families can contact Niko at:  sfyouth@sanfran.goarch.org

 

 

 

 

Also, see archived messages from 
former director (now Fr.) Peter Sotiras